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Post by Roxy on Feb 11, 2004 23:32:04 GMT -5
Sure it is! I do it all the time! ...Oh wait, I'M a girl... oh well. ^_^. Guys: I'd seriously disagree with the "don't ask to kiss". ASK before you do anything of the sort. If you didn't ask me and did it right away, I'd bizzitch slap you. It's violating my privacy. ~_~ But don't ask it straight out, 'cause that just plain ruins it. Give little hints (ie. putting arm around shoulder) and such. That's what I meant not just jump up to some girl and pull her into a smooch, guys'll get slapped for that one. They won't get slapped if they are into a girl and their hanging out or whatever and if you hint that's a good but asking just ruins the moment. So hints but don't directly blurt out the question plus there is no right answer to the question oooh yes.. that happend too to me in elementary and in junior high. i used to be with a boy that was my best friend and everybody say things about us. i rmemeber that in elementary our teachers grounded almost all of our group because they were running gossips about us and saying things to us and throwing stuff that were not only rocks (those were for me, i used to be a bullseye to rocks ). but he was a good friend. to bad he went to live to another place when we went to junior high. there i used to hang on with a boys circle, it was cool and also to go to their houses for playing Super smash bros, mario kart 64 and mario party ;D I love my guy friends *sigh* Oh the memories...
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Post by Buddy on Feb 12, 2004 15:47:58 GMT -5
That's what I meant not just jump up to some girl and pull her into a smooch, guys'll get slapped for that one. They won't get slapped if they are into a girl and their hanging out or whatever and if you hint that's a good but asking just ruins the moment. So hints but don't directly blurt out the question plus there is no right answer to the question So... ask, but don't ask... And we wonder why so guys can ever get dates. It's too darn complicated!
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Post by teghan62 on Feb 12, 2004 17:53:33 GMT -5
So... ask, but don't ask... And we wonder why so guys can ever get dates. Give hints! Most girls know what an arm around the shoulder usually leads up to...
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Post by wolfofthewoods on Feb 12, 2004 19:04:09 GMT -5
Give hints! Most girls know what an arm around the shoulder usually leads up to... But guys? Don't do the "yawn and stretch." My friend's boyfriend did that, and she just started laughing. Poor kid. =_= Don't yawn. Just put your arm around her shoulder.
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Post by Rider on Feb 12, 2004 19:30:03 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]Oh yeah. My best freind is a guy, and the next person who asks if we're going out will eaither get thwacked with Jane Eyre (which is 19th century literature. Painful) or attacked by a Meepit. ;D[/glow]
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Post by Roxy on Feb 12, 2004 22:29:49 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]Oh yeah. My best freind is a guy, and the next person who asks if we're going out will eaither get thwacked with Jane Eyre (which is 19th century literature. Painful) or attacked by a Meepit. ;D[/glow] I know how you feel Rider!
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Post by Killix on Feb 12, 2004 22:54:03 GMT -5
Yeah, I'd totally slap any guy that tried to kiss me without asking first XD
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Post by peachifruit on Feb 12, 2004 23:00:15 GMT -5
The quickest way to get a smack from a girl is to kiss her without asking, or at least hinting like Teghan said. It's just wrong. One thing I just don't like is when guys try to act overly manly to get a girls attention. I'm actually rather attracted to nerds in general. (So you can see why Fawful and I are married. ^_~) I don't know if it's a piece of advice I can give, though, because it's based more on my opinion, but...
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Post by Deleted on Feb 12, 2004 23:02:13 GMT -5
The quickest way to get a smack from a girl is to kiss her without asking, or at least hinting like Teghan said. It's just wrong. One thing I just don't like is when guys try to act overly manly to get a girls attention. I'm actually rather attracted to nerds in general. (So you can see why Fawful and I are married. ^_~) I don't know if it's a piece of advice I can give, though, because it's based more on my opinion, but... I like the quiet but funny guy hiding in the corner...but not hiding in a creepy way.
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Post by Lugia on Feb 13, 2004 2:46:15 GMT -5
Question about makeup: What if you have blonde eyelashes? So blonde, in fact, that after a few lazy days of not wearing it, you can't find the whites of your eyeballs from your skin because of a lack of any mascara-ish outline?
Cause... ya know... not that that applies to me or anything... *shifty glance*
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2004 21:57:20 GMT -5
Guys: Girls are all different! You can't just assume that one girl is the same as her friends! (People have done that to me. My friends wear tons of makeup and go shopping all the time. I'm more sensible. ) And, you can't judge a girl by how she dresses or how she acts with her friends! Just because a girl wears baggy pants doesn't mean she's a complete tomboy, and just because a girl is a cheerleader doesn't mean she's a ditzy girly-girl! Girls: Can't stress this enough, the make-up doesn't go over well! I have 4 brothers, and they can't stand makeup. They think it shows fakeness, because theyre too insecure to go places without wearing makeup. Guys typically want girls who are easygoing and nice. Treat him as an equal!!!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2004 21:59:44 GMT -5
Guys: Girls are all different! You can't just assume that one girl is the same as her friends! (People have done that to me. My friends wear tons of makeup and go shopping all the time. I'm more sensible. ) And, you can't judge a girl by how she dresses or how she acts with her friends! Just because a girl wears baggy pants doesn't mean she's a complete tomboy, and just because a girl is a cheerleader doesn't mean she's a ditzy girly-girl! Girls: Can't stress this enough, the make-up doesn't go over well! I have 4 brothers, and they can't stand makeup. They think it shows fakeness, because theyre too insecure to go places without wearing makeup. Guys typically want girls who are easygoing and nice. Treat him as an equal!!! Again with the makeup thing? I'm glad I don't wear much--black eyeliner (which everyone tells me I look good with so I'm not sure about it or not) and, when acne strikes, cover-up. That's it.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 13, 2004 22:10:56 GMT -5
Again with the makeup thing? I'm glad I don't wear much--black eyeliner (which everyone tells me I look good with so I'm not sure about it or not) and, when acne strikes, cover-up. That's it. What I've come to realize is this: Girls like the look of makeup on other girls, but guys don't go for it that much... Guys like the look of buzz-cuts on other guys,but most girls just go "ewww..." (MOST that I have come into contact with preffer medium-longish hair)
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Post by alissaameth on Feb 14, 2004 4:03:30 GMT -5
For both genders: GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE JUST FRIENDS! My best friend and I are of the opposite gender and I'm so sick of people coming up to us and asking us if we're going out or that we'd make a cute couple, it'll never happen, we're just friends, no more and no less Amen! My best friend is a guy too... (the girls in my class can be such a pain) But I don't think he likes how my "friends" are always talking about ohh.. you love him, I can tell. I mean, I don't like it either. But I think that he almost avoids me when I'm with other girls o_0 Once I got mad and told my friends that I do love him, but not that way. I think they took it the wrong way -_-
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Post by Roxy on Feb 14, 2004 11:00:12 GMT -5
What I've come to realize is this: Girls like the look of makeup on other girls, but guys don't go for it that much... Guys like the look of buzz-cuts on other guys,but most girls just go "ewww..." (MOST that I have come into contact with preffer medium-longish hair) The make-up thing is true. I'd only wear in on special occasions and such but it's normal to wear cover-up when acne attacks or a little natural colored eyeshadow or mascara. I think wearing subtle natural make-up is alright as long as you don't go over board. I mean no guys is going to like a girl that wears more make-up than a clown
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