One Peice of Advice For the Opposite Gender

[Retired Blub]

Eggz said:

((Blub's got a girlfriend? *clings on hm anyway* XDDDD))

This thread IS old. Useful, though.

Awhile ago. We're just friends now.

[Eggz]

Blubbeh-POSTING said:

Awhile ago. We're just friends now.

^____^ *huggles*

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Okay, this thread looked interesting! The only thing I have to say is:

Guys- Let's say you like a girl and she likes you. If you're on a date with her, or just alone with her don't make any fast moves like a really quick kiss.

I was 12. There was this one boy that I had a crush on... a small crush, and he had a HUGE crush on me. We were outside looking at the stars and hearing the crickets chirp softly. It was such a nice night and we were both just enjoying it. We started to talk then he just grabbed my shoulders and kissed me on the lips. But it didn't really feel like he meant it. It was more of a, "Yeah, I'm just going to kiss you for the fun of it."

But I certainly wasn't ready to kiss him.

It was super awkward and after that, I didn't talk to him much. His move was hasty and plus, it ruined the whole night.

Yeah, just thought I should share that.

[Smiley]

Guest-Rishiy said:

Do not pinch my butt. Do not pinch ANYONES butt! It hurts ...

We'll keep that in mind if we ever get the urge... XD

Girls, don't shave your eyebrows and pencil them back in. It looks so hideous. I'd rather have a unibrow than a thin pencil line that makes people think I'm a prostitute or something.

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Smiley said:

We'll keep that in mind if we ever get the urge... XD

Girls, don't shave your eyebrows and pencil them back in. It looks so hideous. I'd rather have a unibrow than a thin pencil line that makes people

Agreed.

[Rishiy]

Smiley said:

We'll keep that in mind if we ever get the urge... XD

Girls, don't shave your eyebrows and pencil them back in. It looks so hideous. I'd rather have a unibrow than a thin pencil line that makes people think I'm a prostitute or something.

Yes! It looks drag queeny...

[Stal]

Does anyone have anything they'd like to add to this thread, or anyone care if it gets moved to memory lane?

[Crystal]

I think it can be moved.

[Stal]

Just so everyone knows, I had a nice piece of advice all written up. I went to post and it turns out Crystal moved the thread while I was typing.

Evil Crystal.

aerisangel01 said:

I really cannot understand how someone like you didn't had a girls friend yet! If I knew a guy like you(and if I was free, 'cause I'm in a relationship right now =P ), I would try to be his girl friend for sure! (And if you are romantic with that, well I can say with no doubt that you are THE perfect guy! =P )

frostcrystal said:

Sir said:

Here's more pieces of advice...

--Girls: Don't make a guy promise that they'll never leave you, unless there's some motive behind it that will be revealed eventually. It will drive the guy crazy (especially if he likes you, and you're going out with someone else).

--Guys: Send cards for no reason. I'm dead serious. For absolutely no reason, just send an e-card (or even a physical card) to them. It's kind of like flowers, and if you're not together, taken better than them.

--Guys: Be chivalrous. Open doors, be polite, escort. Chivalry is something most girls will eat up and love...especially if it's your personality and not you "campaigning" for their love.

--Guys: Along the same lines of e-cards, if you two are going out, give her flowers every now and then, for no reason at all. Just little surprises, you know?

--Guys: Dance. At least slow dance, anyhow.

--Guys: If you have a "rival," befriend him. It not only eases competition levels, but you score points for being a good guy (as in not wishing death upon him). But he can also give you advice and stuff...especially if he's currently "winning".

Uhmmm...I have some more, but I can't think of any...

Well, I've never had a boyfriend, so I really can't say....

But these are really the kind of things I'd like my guy to do for me. Well, if it's really his true nature and not something he's doing 'just this once'. It makes me feel... I dunno, like he's thinking of me and stuff. Except I don't dance.

What are you doing without a girlfriend, Stal? Are ya sure that no other girl likes you, but she's just hiding it 'cause she knows you're in love with Yui? You're just too good to be true! *wonders if Stal is good-looking* *decides that she doesn't really care, because if a guy is that nice she wouldn't care nuts whether he was good-looking or not* But then I'm only 14.... 4 years younger. *sigh*

neversaybuzz said:

Stal, if you were a few years younger, and about a 1000 miles closer...

See boys? Chivilary isn't dead. Some girls like it (like me) and some don't. Thank you very much Stal for suggesting that. Guys, print out his post and carry it with you at all times!

neversaybuzz said:

Sir said:

You know, in all honesty, I don't care about her looks. It wasn't the fact that she's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen (it's the truth!) that made me fall in love with her. What did is how great of a person she is, her personality...who she is. I haven't had this great a friendship with anyone, ever....

So, yeah, her looking as great as she does is merely a bonus, in my opinion. I'd love her like this no matter what she looked like.

You know what NTWF boys? Just print out ALL of Stal's posts and keep them on you at all times. Seriously. That's it. I'm getting the email addys of all the guys I know and am emailing them this thread!!

Copy and paste the URL..duh..*smacks self*

I am a HUGE fan of Christian punk/rock/metal. Skillet, Relient K, DC Talk is cool too, Pax 217..I am a punk at heart!!

I kind of agree with what Crystal said..if you're dating a guy, it's a lot easier if you have the same beliefs. It just..is.

frostcrystal said:

Sir said:

You know, in all honesty, I don't care about her looks. It wasn't the fact that she's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen (it's the truth!) that made me fall in love with her. What did is how great of a person she is, her personality...who she is. I haven't had this great a friendship with anyone, ever....

So, yeah, her looking as great as she does is merely a bonus, in my opinion. I'd love her like this no matter what she looked like.

*prints out Stal's posts and pastes them up all over the city*

You're the kind of guy any girl would like! You SHOULDN'T be single! I know lots of girls who'd snap you up in a moment!

Okay, maybe not ANY girl. Still, a fair majority. ;D

neversaybuzz said:

Stal, how come you don't have girls just fainting at your door step? Oh right, they can't make it all the way the-*thud*

....I love looking through this thread. XD

Although I imagine most of the above girls would want to change their opinions and what it is they said, over a year later of knowing me.

Anyway, I do have advice.

DO NOT WORRY ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

Seriously, it's for the best. I wasted nearly two years of my life longing for Yui. She finally told me that beyond caring a lot for me, and loving me as a friend, there was nothing there a month back.

Not the happy fairy tale ending everyone expected eh?

I wasted those months being miserable, and in the end it didn't even work out.

Learn what I learned without needing to experience what I have.

Relationships aren't worth longing for, and searching after. I may very well be a life-long bachelor and die without ever being kissed. But you know? I'm cool with that...(to an extent). Or I may meet someone that I love more deeply than anyone else and she loves me.

Whatever happens, is going to happen eventually and that's that. No use getting upset about not having one right now. Don't go out looking for one because it's not worth it.

Being YOU, being the person you just ARE is what will help you in the long run. And when you long for someone and/or search for a relationship...you almost wear a personality mask. And when you find one under those circumstances they always have odd rough spots and don't have the best chance of lasting.

Enjoy life. Enjoy being single. Someday you'll all find someone. But someday ain't here yet and so you gotta just live the life you currently have. You can't live the life you don't have, you can't live the life you once had, you're only option is to make the most out of what it is you DO have.

And in the end, that will always work to your advantage.