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Post by kuwoobie on Mar 13, 2004 19:41:01 GMT -5
My piece of advice... GIRLS: Don't judge a boy by his cover. If he does something that p's you off the first time you meet him, don't ditch him! (We're like that...) It can be the other way around sometimes though. I met the girl I loved so long ago by surprise. It's best to find them without swooning over them for a long time or else you end up like I did after I met her. Me : A-duh-duh mahuere's your book ba-ck. ::blushes::
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Post by Roxy on Mar 13, 2004 22:15:51 GMT -5
It can be the other way around sometimes though. I met the girl I loved so long ago by surprise. It's best to find them without swooning over them for a long time or else you end up like I did after I met her. Me : A-duh-duh mahuere's your book ba-ck. ::blushes:: Awww...that's so cute.
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Post by Stal on Mar 30, 2004 23:22:37 GMT -5
--When distancing yourself away from emotional disappointment, try not to distance yourself from people either. They may bite your head off.
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Clarification: Telling a good friend I won't be going to UC. She's upset. We talk a little bit, and I'm making comments avoiding being disappointed and brushing it aside. Silence. "Don't make it sound like I don't care." "Eek. I'm sorry. Trying to distance myself from the emotional disappointment that might come..." "Well fine. Distance emotions. Not people."
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Post by Roxy on Mar 30, 2004 23:52:43 GMT -5
--When distancing yourself away from emotional disappointment, try not to distance yourself from people either. They may bite your head off. >.> Clarification: Telling a good friend I won't be going to UC. She's upset. We talk a little bit, and I'm making comments avoiding being disappointed and brushing it aside. Silence. "Don't make it sound like I don't care." "Eek. I'm sorry. Trying to distance myself from the emotional disappointment that might come..." "Well fine. Distance emotions. Not people." A good peice of advice Stal. A good peice of advice!
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Post by Stal on Apr 7, 2004 9:18:43 GMT -5
Advice to guys:
Don't be afraid of the phone. If a girl tells you to call them make sure you do. Normally I ask for a day/time they want me to call, and call then (I really have the worst timing when I do it on my own. Calling in dinner, calling when not there, calling when in trouble...). Turns out they will remember when you're calling and wait for you to do so.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 7, 2004 17:28:26 GMT -5
Advice to guys: Don't be afraid of the phone. If a girl tells you to call them make sure you do. Normally I ask for a day/time they want me to call, and call then (I really have the worst timing when I do it on my own. Calling in dinner, calling when not there, calling when in trouble...). Turns out they will remember when you're calling and wait for you to do so. Thank you!! Snaps for Stal! *snap snap* And guys, if you say you are going to call, CALL.
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Post by Roxy on Apr 9, 2004 1:33:00 GMT -5
Thank you!! Snaps for Stal! *snap snap* And guys, if you say you are going to call, CALL. EXACTLY! Don't say you're going to call if you don't mean it.
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Post by Cow-winkle on Apr 9, 2004 10:35:45 GMT -5
Good advice. On the off chance I ever get a girlfriend, I'll know not to tell her I'll call. What do you mean that's not what you meant?
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Post by icant on Apr 9, 2004 18:32:51 GMT -5
For the girls - Never ask me, or anyone who is remotely similar to me, out. No good can come from it. Seriously. ... Okay, real advice Don't go flaunting your body, skimpy tops and such, the only people you'll attract are the people who only care about looks. Unless you're in the market for a superficial relationship, in which case flaunt all you want...
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Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2004 21:35:48 GMT -5
For the girls - Never ask me, or anyone who is remotely similar to me, out. No good can come from it. Seriously. ... Okay, real advice Don't go flaunting your body, skimpy tops and such, the only people you'll attract are the people who only care about looks. Unless you're in the market for a superficial relationship, in which case flaunt all you want... That's one of the best pieces of advice I've heard yet. Yes, I'm a girl, but I have 4 brothers who all talk openly about girls and other stuff that most girl don't know and never will know. Guys think that girls in skimpy tops are cute or whatever, but they wouldn't want to be in a relationship with them, because they usually associate skimpy clothes with the attitude: conceit, whining, etc. etc. etc. Well, at least, my brothers are like that, and they're really nice people and great boyfriends (3 of them currently have girlfriends and they've had them from 6 months-18 months).
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Post by Stal on Apr 11, 2004 12:51:52 GMT -5
Good piece of advice with the flaunting. When I see a girl that tries that, I may be able to appreciate their looks but no way would I want to date them or anything.
I hate to stereotype like that, but I must in some situations. Alas...
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Post by Roxy on Apr 11, 2004 21:34:04 GMT -5
Good piece of advice with the flaunting. When I see a girl that tries that, I may be able to appreciate their looks but no way would I want to date them or anything. I hate to stereotype like that, but I must in some situations. Alas... Good advice to know.
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Post by icant on Apr 12, 2004 9:42:54 GMT -5
Good piece of advice with the flaunting. That's one of the best pieces of advice I've heard yet. Well, it's really the only problem with girls at my school, as far as I can tell. Thanks
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Post by ecicca on Apr 12, 2004 12:28:42 GMT -5
(Why is this for the opposite gender, anyway?)
Girls: Don't even bother trying to pretend to cry. I nearly punched my friend for trying that on me XD it pisssed me off.
Don't go out with people for the sake of it! (for either)
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Post by Retired Blub on Apr 25, 2004 22:02:03 GMT -5
Advice to girls: Don't flirt with a guy if he already has a girlfriend. Unless you wan't a catfight to erupt. MEOW! Note: Eh, this post brings back bad memories...
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