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Post by aerisangel01 on Feb 22, 2004 18:51:08 GMT -5
An advice to you guys, if you're going to buy us a gift, buy the most USELESS gift up there, the more useless, the better! It may sound silly, but it's true! Between a candle and a flashlight, the flashlight is a lot more useful, light a lot more and such! But I'll take a perfumed candle instead of a flashlight anyday! Lot's of girls are that way too! ^^
Also, don't judge a girls by her apparences or how she dress, don't think a girl is an easy one because they dress prety sexy. Those girl won't 'do it' with you after one date just because they dress sexy. Some girl that dress normaly do that, some not, and it's the same for those who dress sexy. It's really how the girl is inside, not how she dress.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2004 18:52:55 GMT -5
Also, don't judge a girls by her apparences or how she dress, don't think a girl is an easy one because they dress prety sexy. Those girl won't 'do it' with you after one date just because they dress sexy. Some girl that dress normaly do that, some not, and it's the same for those who dress sexy. It's really how the girl is inside, not how she dress. Umm, no offense, but....*faints.*
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2004 19:00:21 GMT -5
Guys, I have a question! (I think someone may have asked this but...) What do you, as a guy, do when you like someone? What are the signs that a girl should look for when trying to see if a guy likes her?
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Post by Princess Ember Mononoke on Feb 22, 2004 20:09:36 GMT -5
An advice to you guys, if you're going to buy us a gift, buy the most USELESS gift up there, the more useless, the better! It may sound silly, but it's true! Between a candle and a flashlight, the flashlight is a lot more useful, light a lot more and such! But I'll take a perfumed candle instead of a flashlight anyday! Lot's of girls are that way too! ^^ Good point. Practical gifts are NOT romantic. The most romantic gifts, in my opinion, are artsy stuff. I'd rather a guy write me a nice poem or draw me a pretty picture than buy me jewelery.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2004 20:13:48 GMT -5
Guys, I have a question! (I think someone may have asked this but...) What do you, as a guy, do when you like someone? What are the signs that a girl should look for when trying to see if a guy likes her? Okay, I may not be the guy to answer your question, but... For me... I would try talking to you regularly, start up a conversation using any topic possible, never actually TRY to insult you, and actually treat you like a friend. Of coarse, that might just go for me, I can't tell you that would go for all other guys... For girls: Don't sniff a guys hair or tell them they smell nice unless you are actually related, in a relationship, or you know for a fact that he likes you.
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Post by Princess Ember Mononoke on Feb 22, 2004 20:51:07 GMT -5
That's a good topic: how you act when you like somebody.
Well, I'm not really sure if I'm a good representative of the female population, but here's what I do anyway.
-Try to start a conversation on anything I can think of. -Compliment the guy often and act somewhat overly-impressed by whatever artwork or accomplishments or adventures of his we happen to be talking about. -Look for any excuse to make physical contact. Like if the hall is really crowded and we're passing by, my hand will almost invariably just HAPPEN to brush up against his. And if we're sitting next to eachother at lunch (you know, 'cause we're friends) I end up scooting really close to him.
Yes, I know I'm pathetic. You want to make something of it?
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Post by Crystal on Feb 23, 2004 2:20:59 GMT -5
Heh... Im very inexperienced in this area, but...
Guys: For the love of God, just because I had a crush on you when I was ten doesn't mean I have a crush on you now! Why in the world do you keep trying to avoid me? Unless the girl is one patient person, once she understands that you don't really like her in *that* way, she'll back off. It's perfectly fine to be friends after a while.
Alright, fine, that was useless.
Also... don't give conflicting signals. There was this guy I liked once and I wasn't sure whether he liked me or not. Peer pressure is unfortunately very strong, and so he kept on getting teased about me. So he'd be what he was before it started - friendly, normal friendly-type thing - to me when there wasn't anyone around, and when his friends were around, he'd cut me off or generally ignore me, or worse, say bad things about me. This is in retrospect, so I was totally and completely confused (not to mention a total n00b in that area at that time).
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Post by seraphengel on Feb 23, 2004 4:28:33 GMT -5
Guys: Girls are generally sensitive to touch. Touch expresses emotion, though I have learned that guys will flirt with anything that flirts back (yet again, generally speaking, though I'm a girl, I'm experienced)
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Post by ecicca on Feb 23, 2004 12:46:17 GMT -5
What I do when I kind of like someone: Random hugging, budging up closer if you're sitting next to them, etc. But this has only been with friends, so . (plus the random hugging they just think I'm being insane XD)
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Post by Buddy on Feb 23, 2004 17:24:36 GMT -5
Guys, I have a question! (I think someone may have asked this but...) What do you, as a guy, do when you like someone? What are the signs that a girl should look for when trying to see if a guy likes her? If they stare at you a lot, they probably like you. If they try to talk to you a lot, they might like you (though not always). Heh... Im very inexperienced in this area, but... Guys: For the love of God, just because I had a crush on you when I was ten doesn't mean I have a crush on you now! Why in the world do you keep trying to avoid me? Unless the girl is one patient person, once she understands that you don't really like her in *that* way, she'll back off. It's perfectly fine to be friends after a while. I've liked the same girl for almost three years... I still contiinue to think she's the most beautiful person ever to this day... so I guess I'm an exception... or obssessive...
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2004 17:30:51 GMT -5
If they stare at you a lot, they probably like you. If they try to talk to you a lot, they might like you (though not always). I've liked the same girl for almost three years... I still contiinue to think she's the most beautiful person ever to this day... so I guess I'm an exception... or obssessive... What if they look at your paper to see what you're writing and say it's better than anything they've ever written, and they also make some stupid jokes you can't hear half the time? *wondering about the dude in English* And even though we go to different schools now, I'm wondering about this one guy. He also looked at what I was writing, and complimented me on my clothes. And the stupid jokes thing too. But he also carried his binder around like a purse... But I don't think that means anything.
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Post by thegreenmooseofdoom on Feb 23, 2004 20:01:02 GMT -5
If they stare at you a lot, they probably like you. If they try to talk to you a lot, they might like you (though not always). Unless they're insanely shy and afraid of making an ass out of themselves and are too scared to talk to you even though they sit right next to you-- ack, sorry, going off on a tangent. u_u Heh, I'm in the same boat. I know what ya mean. u__u
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Post by seraphengel on Feb 24, 2004 10:34:09 GMT -5
Well, if you like someone that much, for heaven's sake ASK THEM OUT! If you don't, you'll drive yourself insane thinking about it... again with the whole "what if?!!" thing... trust me, you can go crazy with this.
Edit Note: Unless they already have a boyfriend or girlfriend or something like that... Catholic nun??
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Post by thegreenmooseofdoom on Feb 24, 2004 15:47:10 GMT -5
Not sure who yer talkin' to, but I was talking about two different people. One I have 0% chance with (she already told me she doesn't like me), but have still liked for three years, and the other is a crush at school. I really should ask my crush out, but I'm terrified of making a total idiot out of my self. Too bad too, we have a lot in common.
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Post by Buddy on Feb 24, 2004 16:37:16 GMT -5
Heh, I'm in the same boat. I know what ya mean. u__u You mean boy, right? Well, if you like someone that much, for heaven's sake ASK THEM OUT! If you don't, you'll drive yourself insane thinking about it... again with the whole "what if?!!" thing... trust me, you can go crazy with this. I already told her I like her... she pretty much told me that there was no chance. Though, it's good to know that I'm a "pretty nice guy"...
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