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Post by Deleted on Feb 11, 2004 12:21:41 GMT -5
If you were a guy (which you are ) how would you want a girl to let you know she likes you? ^.^[/quote Lets see... By her saying... that she likes me? Really? I would hate that! I figure half the fun of relationships is trying to figure out where you stand and having to work to make things. To me it would be pretty sucky if you were telling each other what was going on all the time. I guess a little push in the right direction would be cool though. And on Buddy's Gangster comment. Its probably just me and my area, but thats whats attractive round here.
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Post by ecicca on Feb 11, 2004 13:07:45 GMT -5
Surprisingly, I agree with both points. The last time I wore make-up, I was five-years-old and playing dress-up. It's pointless stuff, and completely unnatural. And for some reason, it just really, REALLY bugs me that so many girls wear so much of it. I agree. There's this really girly-girl in my form, too... she wears make up and obsessed about hair. And I know this sounds mean, but I can't help having a crack(joke) at that sometimes... Her: *gets pummeled in the face by a snowball* Hey! Some people wear make up, you know! another day: *it rains* Me: Hey Paige, your hair all messed up? Haha. Paige: Yeah! *flicks hair*
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Post by wolfofthewoods on Feb 11, 2004 14:35:14 GMT -5
I wish guys would tell girls that they like them. And I mean TELL them. Not over MSN. Twice in the last few months, guys have done little MSN emoticons like hearts, and hugs, and blah-blah-blah. It's really a turn off, having a guy not be able to tell you in person. And it really freaked me out. ^_^;;
Also, tell the girl you like that she's pretty. Some people may not like it but, hell, I do. XD Do it in a kind of subtle way, though.
Example:
I was in a cabin with a bunch of friends, goofing off about Rumplestiltskin, and at around 1:00 AM we wanted to put on a "play" of it. (I know. We're, like, three years old. XD) I immediately volunteer to be Rumplestiltskin, and a guy friend of mine says, "You can't be him. He's ugly." ^___________^
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Post by teghan62 on Feb 11, 2004 15:15:09 GMT -5
I have a piece of advise for GIRLS.
DON'T expect the guys to do EVERYTHING for you. You have to do something too. If you want a decent realtionship, then DON'T treat your boyfriend like a slave. You are NOT helpless.
Guys don't always have to tell the girl that they like them. Why can't girls too?
Guys don't always have to buy girls presents. Why can't girls buy guys presents too?
It's just like using them. You have to put an effort into it too, girls. You can't just sit back and expect them to do all the work for you.
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Post by lvrgirl91 on Feb 11, 2004 15:18:49 GMT -5
I have a piece of advise for GIRLS. DON'T expect the guys to do EVERYTHING for you. You have to do something too. If you want a decent realtionship, then DON'T treat your boyfriend like a slave. You are NOT helpless. Guys don't always have to tell the girl that they like them. Why can't girls too? Guys don't always have to buy girls presents. Why can't girls buy guys presents too? It's just like using them. You have to put an effort into it too, girls. You can't just sit back and expect them to do all the work for you. Exactly. ^_^ I'd muuuch rather have a guy who respects me than someone who thinks he can buy my love.
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Post by TK on Feb 11, 2004 15:31:10 GMT -5
Thank, Teghan ^^;; Well put.
And THANK-YOU so much to all you girls. I always considered it normal to shower every two months, and let green scum grow over my teeth before brushing. Sure dodged a bullet there, didn't I?
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Post by wolfofthewoods on Feb 11, 2004 15:43:26 GMT -5
I have a piece of advise for GIRLS. DON'T expect the guys to do EVERYTHING for you. You have to do something too. If you want a decent realtionship, then DON'T treat your boyfriend like a slave. You are NOT helpless. Guys don't always have to tell the girl that they like them. Why can't girls too? Guys don't always have to buy girls presents. Why can't girls buy guys presents too? It's just like using them. You have to put an effort into it too, girls. You can't just sit back and expect them to do all the work for you. Nicely said. But, guys, keep in mind that girls do love it when they're at least a tad pampered. It's... fun. But don't over-do it. ;;
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Post by Princess Ember Mononoke on Feb 11, 2004 18:31:50 GMT -5
Or like asking if I want to go on a hike sometime or something of that nature. But thats just me. That's your idea of an ideal date? And I believe in another thread you said that you like geeky girls? Dang! If we lived in the same area, we would be a couple in no time!
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Post by Rider on Feb 11, 2004 19:58:09 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]To the guys: 1) Seriously. Soap is not lethal.
2) Don't assume that all girls are the same.
3) Don't act all tough all of the time. 9 times out of 10, it doesn't impress us.
4) Girls like little trinkets, but as was mentioned before, don't overdo it.
5) (Not that I'm accusing anyone in the Forum of doing this, but) DON'T BE ABUSIVE! Hitting a girl, no matter WHAT the reason is, is not cool.
To girls: 1) Have a bit of self-confidence. You don't need a guy, a cool car, popularity, or anything else to make you a good person.
2) Eating a big, greasy burger once in a while won't kill you immediately.
3) The world won't end if you call a guy. This ain't the 50's. The rules of dating have changed.
4) You guys are right. Makeup isn't natural and it doesn't help THAT much. Unless you have a zit...
5) Do those belly shirts ever get drafty? [/glow]
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Post by Kuro on Feb 11, 2004 20:16:56 GMT -5
Tips for guys: 1. - Don't bug her too much and constantly hang around her, talking to her and stuff. Trust me, I've had guys do this to me before and it makes me feel really uncomfortable and nervous and I end up not liking the guy. So basically, just give them their space. It's fine if you talk to them once and a while, but not constantly.
2. - Make her feel special. She's more interested in how you make her feel about herself than how you look. Compliment her on her clothing, hair, personality, anything.
3. - Using pickup lines? I don't think so! Just, please... avoid them at all costs.
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Post by herp14 on Feb 11, 2004 20:37:45 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]To the guys: 1) Seriously. Soap is not lethal. [/glow] I't not ?! ?! ;D *drinks bottle of liquid hand soap* I was allways woundering if that would be safe or n..*erk*....*Drops dead*
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Post by Roxy on Feb 11, 2004 20:45:11 GMT -5
For both genders:
GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE JUST FRIENDS!
My best friend and I are of the opposite gender and I'm so sick of people coming up to us and asking us if we're going out or that we'd make a cute couple, it'll never happen, we're just friends, no more and no less
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Post by MarillTachiquin on Feb 11, 2004 21:39:28 GMT -5
For both genders: GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE JUST FRIENDS! My best friend and I are of the opposite gender and I'm so sick of people coming up to us and asking us if we're going out or that we'd make a cute couple, it'll never happen, we're just friends, no more and no less oooh yes.. that happend too to me in elementary and in junior high. i used to be with a boy that was my best friend and everybody say things about us. i rmemeber that in elementary our teachers grounded almost all of our group because they were running gossips about us and saying things to us and throwing stuff that were not only rocks (those were for me, i used to be a bullseye to rocks ). but he was a good friend. to bad he went to live to another place when we went to junior high. there i used to hang on with a boys circle, it was cool and also to go to their houses for playing Super smash bros, mario kart 64 and mario party ;D
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Post by chishirou on Feb 11, 2004 22:01:18 GMT -5
my ideal date would be a good game of tackle-tag in a forest, which includes no kissing whatsoever, only mud and bruises. ah! alas my twin! *dies* ^_^
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Post by teghan62 on Feb 11, 2004 22:05:35 GMT -5
[glow=red,2,300]5) (Not that I'm accusing anyone in the Forum of doing this, but) DON'T BE ABUSIVE! Hitting a girl, no matter WHAT the reason is, is not cool. Sure it is! I do it all the time! :D ...Oh wait, I'M a girl... oh well. ^_^. Guys: I'd seriously disagree with the "don't ask to kiss". ASK before you do anything of the sort. If you didn't ask me and did it right away, I'd bizzitch slap you. It's violating my privacy. ~_~ But don't ask it straight out, 'cause that just plain ruins it. Give little hints (ie. putting arm around shoulder) and such.
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