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Post by alissaameth on Feb 9, 2004 11:31:18 GMT -5
Advice to girls: If a guy is shy, its not against the law to ask him out if the farthest he bring himself to is flirting. Guy's shouldn't be expected to always make that initial step. Its a pain in the butt. If you like a guy, ask him out. If you were a guy (which you are ) how would you want a girl to let you know she likes you? ^.^
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Post by ecicca on Feb 9, 2004 11:50:27 GMT -5
Okay, so my friend's had this problem when she went out with 2 of these guys:
BE YOUR FRIKKEN SELF. Don't act different, because they liked the YOU.
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Post by Oily on Feb 9, 2004 13:29:29 GMT -5
If you can't say something at least remotely intelligent, preferably connecting more than two of your brain cells, then don't even bother to open your mouth.
I think that goes to both of the sexes. I've always preferred guys that I can talk to on the same level and will laugh at each other's jokes, regardless of other factors. At least act mature!
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Post by herp14 on Feb 9, 2004 13:47:22 GMT -5
If you can't say something at least remotely intelligent, preferably connecting more than two of your brain cells, then don't even bother to open your mouth. Implimargle ??
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2004 16:57:37 GMT -5
If we ever ask do I look fat in this the answer is always, NO!!! But girls...we shouldn't really ask that questions anywayz Sometimes we do it to raise our self esteem. Our family and friends could say we're pretty, but you wouldn't believe it until the guy you like says that. Guys, I have included a short guide on how to answer those tough questions. Please note, if a girl asks you one of these questions, ANSWER RIGHT AWAY! DON'T PAUSE! If she says You answer Does this make me look fat? NO! Is she prettier than me? NO! That about sums it up.
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Post by Gryphon on Feb 9, 2004 20:04:59 GMT -5
My advice to guys and girls alike: Stay away from me, especially if you find it offensive when someone gives you a friendly kick-in-the-shins. ...I do that a lot. I personally think that this entire generation is too soft with all their hair gel and looks and... *shudder* Showers. I fear I would gross out the average guy with my table manners alone, not to mention my ideal date would be a good game of tackle-tag in a forest, which includes no kissing whatsoever, only mud and bruises. I have strange ideas of fun, don't I? ^_^ Sometimes we do it to raise our self esteem. Our family and friends could say we're pretty, but you wouldn't believe it until the guy you like says that. Guys, I have included a short guide on how to answer those tough questions. Please note, if a girl asks you one of these questions, ANSWER RIGHT AWAY! DON'T PAUSE! If she says You answer Does this make me look fat? NO! Is she prettier than me? NO! That about sums it up. If you ask me, no self-respecting girl would ask if they're fat or if someone else is prettier. If you're not content with the way you look, change it, or make yourself content with it, don't be content with yourself only when everyone else is. It's not right, even if you are just "trying to raise your self-esteem". My idea of raising my self-esteem is to give someone a good kick in the shins and laugh when they jump and scream and then limp away as fast as they possibly can. ^_^ But, hey, that's just my greeting!
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Post by RJ on Feb 10, 2004 2:19:35 GMT -5
And also, one more bit of advice.
If you're with other guys and a girl, don't act too cool infront of the guys. It bugs the girl and she'll probably think you're a jerk.
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Post by Killix on Feb 10, 2004 11:27:53 GMT -5
And don't ever watch Queer Eye. I'd rather have manly man than the sensitive turds that are created through that crock of poop. Pfft, I wish guys would watch Queer Eye with me ;_; Ah-well...I like girly-men XD EDIT: Oh right advice...umm....err... guys, If a girl says she's a lesbian then for the love of chocolate cheese, DON'T HIT ON HER! She couldn't be less interested in you... There, I said it XD
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2004 12:28:53 GMT -5
For the girls (finally):
1) Dont be so confusing! One minute its all about honesty, then the next its getting slapped up when you hesitate to say shes the prettiest in the school.
2) Give us some space. theres nothing like being pounced on when you trying to have a conversation with your boys, you get me? It nice a lot of the time, but I dont appreciate you seeing my pockets as your gloves.
3) Dont do to us what you woudnt have done to you. Its not realy fair telling us to be nice, and never insult you, or talk about 'women', when Ive seen plenty of you do it about us. Us guys have off days, were not perfect. You apparently know that, someone wrote a whole book about it. 'Men are form Mars. Women from Venus.'
4) Intelegent conversations are fun. Lots of fun. But we just dont understand some things. Face it...
5) And finally... Guys look at other girls sometimes. Its what they are designed to do! Cut some slack. They love you realy!
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Post by Buddy on Feb 10, 2004 18:50:00 GMT -5
For the Guys: Mine would have to be, don't ask to kiss a girl you just do it. Asking just ruins the moment and she's not going to slap you for kissing her that's just in the movies. Hmmm... does the great "Foxy Roxy" speak from experience? Advice to all girls: I know this may make some people unhappy, but this is the first thing that came to mind and it always seems to get under my skin! NO MAKEUP! Really! I'm serious! I can't possibly tell you how much of a turn-off this is! I mean, really! This stuff does not make you look better! Really, it dosen't! Trust me, if you're good looking already, you don't need make-up. If you're ugly already, make-up will do you no good. Just don't use it! For the guys (why am I giving out this advice?): Please, don't act gangstar. I don't know why, but whenever I see a guy at my school try to act gangstar and cool around a girl, it annoys me... and I'm not even a girl! But then, I'm sure all the girls here would agree, right?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2004 18:51:35 GMT -5
Hmmm... does the great "Foxy Roxy" speak from experience? Advice to all girls: I know this may make some people unhappy, but this is the first thing that came to mind and it always seems to get under my skin! NO MAKEUP! Really! I'm serious! I can't possibly tell you how much of a turn-off this is! I mean, really! This stuff does not make you look better! Really, it dosen't! Trust me, if you're good looking already, you don't need make-up. If you're ugly already, make-up will do you no good. Just don't use it! For the guys (why am I giving out this advice?): Please, don't act gangstar. I don't know why, but whenever I see a guy at my school try to act gangstar and cool around a girl, it annoys me... and I'm not even a girl! But then, I'm sure all the girls here would agree, right? Aw, thank you! I don't really see how being a 'thug' or 'pimp' is supposed to impress a girl. It's stupid really.
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Post by Roxy on Feb 10, 2004 20:29:28 GMT -5
Hmmm... does the great "Foxy Roxy" speak from experience? Advice to all girls: I know this may make some people unhappy, but this is the first thing that came to mind and it always seems to get under my skin! NO MAKEUP! Really! I'm serious! I can't possibly tell you how much of a turn-off this is! I mean, really! This stuff does not make you look better! Really, it dosen't! Trust me, if you're good looking already, you don't need make-up. If you're ugly already, make-up will do you no good. Just don't use it! For the guys (why am I giving out this advice?): Please, don't act gangstar. I don't know why, but whenever I see a guy at my school try to act gangstar and cool around a girl, it annoys me... and I'm not even a girl! But then, I'm sure all the girls here would agree, right? Actually I am...that happened with my ex-boyfriend. He completely just ruined the moment and it was awful. No more about that one, long story!
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Post by Princess Ember Mononoke on Feb 10, 2004 21:10:21 GMT -5
Hmmm... does the great "Foxy Roxy" speak from experience? Advice to all girls: I know this may make some people unhappy, but this is the first thing that came to mind and it always seems to get under my skin! NO MAKEUP! Really! I'm serious! I can't possibly tell you how much of a turn-off this is! I mean, really! This stuff does not make you look better! Really, it dosen't! Trust me, if you're good looking already, you don't need make-up. If you're ugly already, make-up will do you no good. Just don't use it! For the guys (why am I giving out this advice?): Please, don't act gangstar. I don't know why, but whenever I see a guy at my school try to act gangstar and cool around a girl, it annoys me... and I'm not even a girl! But then, I'm sure all the girls here would agree, right? Surprisingly, I agree with both points. The last time I wore make-up, I was five-years-old and playing dress-up. It's pointless stuff, and completely unnatural. And for some reason, it just really, REALLY bugs me that so many girls wear so much of it.
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Post by Kuro on Feb 11, 2004 8:36:07 GMT -5
I agree that girls shouldn't be wearing like, a mask of makeup, but I think it's fine if they put on some powder to cover up zits or something. Not everyone is comfortable walking around with a huge zit on their forehead. Pretty much the only makeup I wear is powder and hey, if I feel like it, I'll wear mascera (sp). If it's a special occasion, such as a wedding, I'll wear more stuff. I think makeup is fine depending on how much you wear for the occasion.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 11, 2004 11:44:07 GMT -5
If you were a guy (which you are ) how would you want a girl to let you know she likes you? ^.^[/quote Lets see... By her saying... that she likes me? Lol Or like asking if I want to go on a hike sometime or something of that nature. But thats just me. But I'd probably be just as likely to do either of those. Or another good way to do it, and I've seen this lots, is to somehow slip into the conversation that the person you are talking to is attractive. It amazes me how people can do this and make it fit perfectly into a conversation. Although the problem with that is that guys are stupid. I usually never realize it happened until long after the fact. ^_^;;
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