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Post by ecicca on Sept 17, 2003 11:00:28 GMT -5
As some of you may know, I've been in a rocky relationship [2 break ups] for awhile. But now, we BOTH can feel the love coming back... like when we first met... it's a great feeling, and I hope it never goes away again... I hope it lasts, forever ;D This is great... I love that person so much  |
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Post by Princess Ember Mononoke on Sept 17, 2003 13:16:47 GMT -5
I thought you were Lapin's age, Ami. That's a little young to have gone through TWO break ups.
Anyway congratulations! I hope it works out this time.
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Post by ecicca on Sept 17, 2003 13:22:35 GMT -5
I am about 1 year younger than Lapin.
But age doesn't matter. That's my motto.
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Post by hippiesoul on Sept 17, 2003 14:25:17 GMT -5
Okay, so you're what, 11? 10? 9?? Geez, sorry to say, but in this case age *does* matter. don't you think love is a tad strong word to use when you're 10 years old? Gosh, I'm 16 and I never even though of using that word. ever.
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Post by ecicca on Sept 17, 2003 14:29:42 GMT -5
11, almost 12.
But, if you're all going to be judgemental, someone please delete this thread.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 17, 2003 14:36:06 GMT -5
Hmmm... I agree with Ami, love isnt something you put an age limit on. I say as long as your old enough to feel emotion, then your old enough to know when the right person at the time comes around. o what if shes young? She still has the right to class her own relationships how she sees fit! I say we all get off her back and leave the working out up to her.
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Post by Tracy on Sept 17, 2003 15:01:40 GMT -5
All the more experience for Ami. I don't feel strongly towards either side of this debate, but surely, if you have that feeling, you can't help it. I don't see how age disallows such a feeling.
Just my two neopoints.
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Post by hippiesoul on Sept 18, 2003 1:49:15 GMT -5
It's not age that disallows feeling love, it's the maturity of the person that does. At 12, I don't think you have enough maturity, enough "years of experience", per se, to classify your feelings as 'love'. Love is too strong a word. It could be real friendship, and it could be attraction, and I do believe she likes this guy, what I don't believe it that "love" is there. But anyway, I hope things turn out okay for, Ami. Just give love a bit more thought.
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Post by ecicca on Sept 18, 2003 10:41:00 GMT -5
(And that is still to do with age, Hippiesoul :  Sigh... we broke up again..  I don't think we should get back together. We've broken up too many times.. but who knows? |
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Post by hippiesoul on Sept 18, 2003 13:09:55 GMT -5
(And that is still to do with age, Hippiesoul  You know? Whatever. I stated my opinion, and I know if you gave it a little thought, you'd understand what I'm trying to say. Have you heard of someone falling in love at the age of 12? At the age of 12 the only love a kid knows is the love for their parents and family! And besides, do you really think 12 y/os are capable of having a relationship? If you do, I have the Belém Tower in Lisbon to sell you... And why would a 12 y/o want a relationship, a situation tehy can't handle just yet? I say stop wanting to grow up so fast... But there's no real reason in arguing, is there? Because you're really convinced you are "in love", and because my opinion means as much to you as the lenght of a goat's tail. So I'll let you be "in love" and "heartbroken" all you want. Sorry things didn't turn out the way you wanted them to, though. But... may I ask why you two broke up? |
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Post by ecicca on Sept 18, 2003 13:53:28 GMT -5
Oh, after each break up the love slowly started to fade.. so.. yeah. I thought we were just getting back on track... |
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Post by aerisangel01 on Sept 18, 2003 15:10:26 GMT -5
I totally disagree, hippie. I first fell in love at 12, and the boy I loved became my boyfriend at 13. We were with each other for one and half a year before I broke with him(because he was going to change school). We didn't saw each other for one years when we became friend again(Aka: At the beginning of this school years), yet I still have to exact same feeling for him that I had when I was 12, and it truly was love. He too still love me, I know it, he know I love him. Because I have a boyfriend we can't go back with each other, but if I didn't had a boyfriend I would be with him.
And I fell in love with him at 12.
So yes, you do can feel love as soon as 12.
Beside, there is way worse. Some people did you know what at 10! This is worse.#nosmileys
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Post by hippiesoul on Sept 18, 2003 15:19:24 GMT -5
yet I still have to exact same feeling for him that I had when I was 12, and it truly was love. He too still love me, I know it, he know I love him. Because I have a boyfriend we can't go back with each other, but if I didn't had a boyfriend I would be with him. Beside, there is way worse. Some people did you know what at 10! This is worse. If you love him so much and he loves you, why the heck are you with some other guy? Those poor kids were raped. =| taht has nothing to do with love. |
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Post by aerisangel01 on Sept 18, 2003 15:21:47 GMT -5
If you love him so much and he loves you, why the heck are you with some other guy? Those poor kids were raped. =| taht has nothing to do with love. Because I love my other boyfriend too. Can't help that. |
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Post by hippiesoul on Sept 18, 2003 15:25:18 GMT -5
Erm.... okay. IMHO, that ain't love then. For either of them.
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