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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2011 17:17:33 GMT -5
Tamia, *HUG* I was doing exactly the same thing just yesterday, I'm so sorry.  Teow, I'm sorry to hear you're sick and under pressure, I do hope things will go well for you and you can rest up over the weekend. ^^ GLQ, I know the feeling. Lots of things go way over my head. Any chance to get a tutor? *hugs* Hang in there, you're one of the smartest people I know. :3 Misunderstood Person, parents can be so difficult sometimes, just do the best you can, be patient and one day you'll be able to move out of home and have your own life. A lot of people get along much better with their parents when they're not living together. *feeds you cookies* |
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Post by Celestial on Oct 19, 2011 17:45:34 GMT -5
I don't have anybody to direct this at but I just wanted to put this out here:
To all of you who despair over a flaw or flaws, just remember: you are more than just those flaws. It is just a (maybe big, maybe small) part of a complex machine that makes up the person called 'you'.
So do not despair over that flaw. You are always better than you think you are. <3
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Post by selmette on Nov 12, 2011 6:37:55 GMT -5
...-merges posts to avoid double posting-
/hugs for sae
i'm sorry things are so stressful for you right now. hang in there and know that we are all here for you. there's always a light at the end of the tunnel; you know that better than anyone.
/hugs for reve
um.
i hope hugs are sufficient, because i can't really form a coherent string of comforting words specific to your situation.
/more hugs
/hugs for draco
i know you're feeling a bit disconnected, but i've always thought you were pretty legit and wanted to get to know you better. like i don't think i would have been able to tell you were drifting away from anything if you hadn't stated it outright. please hang in there, okay? for meeeeee? ♥
/hugs for robyn
girl if you complain about your hair one more time i swear to god i will slap you. you are beautiful and amazing and a wonderful friend and person and you know what it's a dang shame not everyone is able to see that. i love you and you're not a failure or a let-down or a burden in any way. don't blame yourself for things that aren't under your control. ♥
/hugs for tamia
i've been feeling the same way for far too long. i hope we can both find the time soon. ♥
/hugs for krimz
lol god i love you so much, i hate it when you're upset and i have no idea what to say. also i'm really ticked i missed the tinychat because god you are gorjusssss. ♥
/hugs for sarn
i can't tell you how many times you've brightened my day or given me the strength to face it with just a simple hello. i wish i could do the same for you. ♥
/hugs for reve
i wish you knew how much i look up to you; you're such a huge role model for me. you make everything you do into a stunning work of art and i wish i could find a way to make you feel better about yourself. >>;
so many hugs.
-arms are sore-
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Post by Shy on Nov 18, 2011 15:38:24 GMT -5
Nat, whoever said that? Delusional. May have recently ingested some sort of mind-warping substance. You're adorable <3
Sarn, the world would be a darker place without you. I for one have never judged you by your flaws. I've judged you by how incredibly you've fought against them, to become an incredibly inspiring person. You're amazing <3
Alyssa, your dog is in my prayers <3 I hope she'll be all right.
Tamia, you're not remotely detestable. You're a fantastic person and a delight to be around <3 I'm not sure what's up with anyone else, but remember that you're awesome.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 29, 2011 19:48:04 GMT -5
*hugs "Aww Man"* Ohhh, that just sounds horrid. I'm sorry about that.
*hugs Torkie* I hate being sick too. My best wishes.
*hugs GLQ* Ooooh, I hate back spasms. I've had muscle aches before. I'm sorry.
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Post by selmette on Nov 29, 2011 19:58:36 GMT -5
-hugs sae- i know how difficult it can be to have parents whose world views differ from yours. but (as i'm sure you will) stay confident in your beliefs regardless. once you're an adult he'll have to face the fact that your values differ from his. he'll learn to accept and respect them in time; come july he won't even be able to legally enforce his beliefs upon you anymore.
-hugs purple- i hope you can retrieve all the files that may have been lost. i've recently experienced a similar(although much less serious) issue with my computer.
-hugs teeb, torkie, reve, purple, and anyone else generally stressing out about school- i can't relate fully but i can certainly sympathize.
-hugs glq- i hate it when i do that D: i hope you feel better soon.
-hugs nova- same problem here. :/
-late hugs lupehunter- that has to be awful. i can't look at a person the same way after finding out they've done something like that.
-late hugs dju- i'm sorry things are so stressful for you lately. you really don't deserve any of that.
-late hugs dan- i get like that too sometimes. it's very irritating, to say the least. >>;
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Post by Robyn on Nov 30, 2011 9:04:39 GMT -5
-hugs GLQ- Oh nooooo! Hope your back feels better soon. Hate when that happens to me. XP
-hugs Sae- Haha, sometimes my dad & I don't see eye to eye either. Our minds just work so differently; it's really rather fascinating. I had a really good moment with him the other day though, when I talked to him one-on-one and tried to discuss things the way HE discusses things-- rationally and calmly. When we started to butt heads on anything, I'd explain why I felt the way I did or why I said what I said without getting angry or flustered, and it made things a whole lot smoother. I found out he actually tends to assume strange things when I often didn't mean anything by it, or when I'd just seemed to phrase things the wrong way. XD It was really cool getting to talk like that, and I hope you can someday find a way for you and your father to connect without things getting heated.
-hugs Dju- GOOD LUCK ON YOUR REPORT CARD GURL YOU GONNA ROCK IT <33
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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2011 23:14:26 GMT -5
*BIG HUG for "Hide"* You know what? Just because you can't give pure kindness all the time doesn't mean you have to not be yourself. Everyone is selfish sometimes, and it's not a bad thing. I think people are like Fresco-inspired mugs - they're not perfect, and that's what makes them beautiful. Hun, I think you should be kind when you can be and as much as you want to be and people won't hate you for it. I've said some things I really regret, and I'm just fine. No one who knows me loves me any less because of it. What's important is even if you do something little, if it's a nice thing it will inspire someone to pass that kindness on, and that will spread to the world. Just a "hello" or a smile can brighten someone's day. You do not have to pretend to be someone you're not to be loved. You can be yourself.
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Post by Breakingchains on Dec 3, 2011 9:42:51 GMT -5
"Hide": *hugs* Listen, having some concern for your own needs and doing only what you can do without wearing yourself out isn't selfish, it's sane. If you've gotten to the point where you're resenting all you're doing for others and ignoring yourself, then you've overstepped a healthy boundary somewhere and need to lighten the load, no matter who complains. No one should feel pressured to be kind, because then it's not kindness, just fear and social politics.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2011 12:14:51 GMT -5
Tamia, *hugs* I'm sorry about your sister and I hope with all my heart that she gets better.
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Post by Zylaa on Dec 22, 2011 12:22:47 GMT -5
Candy, you are not useless. <3
Tamia, good luck to your sister. <3
Pagan, nobody on here is going to hate you, we have all sorts of beliefs. <3
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2011 18:26:40 GMT -5
Dju, I know how it feels to miss a pet. When my cat died, it took about a year for me to "get over it" (not that I'm really OVER it, I will never forget my cat and as I see it she continues to be with me to this day, and that makes me happy).
I would have tons of dreams and daydreams about my cat still being alive. There was even a daydream in which she was kidnapped and I had to go rescue her. I would cry my eyes out occasionally over her, and I would be begging to get another cat, just because I missed the kitty love. I think I forced myself to be mildly depressed just so we would get another cat.
The point is, I missed her a lot. And I still do. But you will find a way to cope, and your dog will always be there, even if you can't see her all the time.
*BIG HUG* <3 <3 <3
I'm very very sorry about your dog. But she lived a good life and obviously had a very good friend. And no soul forgets something like that, ever. <3
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Post by Tam on Dec 23, 2011 19:55:38 GMT -5
Thank you so much, Zylaa and Sae. <3 My sister stayed overnight at the hospital, they put her on IV and a few medications to make her more comfortable, and she came home the next day feeling a lot better. She'll be fine.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 28, 2011 17:30:25 GMT -5
*hug*
Hey "failure":
You will never be alone. Not as long as I'm around. If you ever need to talk, my PM box is always, always, always open.
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Post by Ginz ❤ on Jan 3, 2012 14:22:00 GMT -5
*hugs Dju* My family has moved around a lot, so I know what it's like to get calls from people looking for the previous owners of the house, even after many years. I'm sorry you got someone so rude answering the phone. D: They had no right to snap at you! You asked politely, they should have had the same courtesy.
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