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Post by Kozma on May 23, 2011 7:00:28 GMT -5
Komori's right in saying that you're not alone in these feelings JDB. I can say this confidently because I often struggle with many of the same issues you described: I sometimes wonder if I got saved merely to avoid Hell, I fall into the same sins over and over again despite the fact that I told myself I would stop it, I'm really reluctant to tell others about the Gospel, I haven't been helping others as much as I fell I should, and I doubt that I fully want to devote my life to following Him. Your struggles reflect my own and I would guess that thousands of other Christians also have these same struggles.
One of the best things you can do to help get through these struggles is to ask for guidance. You've already asked for guidance on here, which is a good start; maybe you can look for guidance from other places as well. You mentioned you have a church your post prior to this one; could you, perhaps, ask a pastor or deacon for assistance?
Is there anything specific you'd like to discuss here? I do believe it would be good insight for all of us to have a discussion on this kind of topic.
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Post by Komori on Jun 3, 2011 15:29:47 GMT -5
Just wanted to post that my church, in a very nerdy-Christian way, did an altered version of Cee Lo Green's "F*** You" song on Saturday, replacing the F-bomb with "forgive," and altering the other lyrics. (It was supposed to go along with the sermon about forgiveness.) It was just really hilarious to look around the church and see on people's faces which of them actually recognized the song and were infinitely amused that it found its way under a church roof. XD
((And I actually really like Cee-Lo's song, despite the language. It's just so catchy! XDDD))
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Post by Draco on Jun 9, 2011 23:09:34 GMT -5
Just wanted to post that my church, in a very nerdy-Christian way, did an altered version of Cee Lo Green's "F*** You" song on Saturday, replacing the F-bomb with "forgive," and altering the other lyrics. (It was supposed to go along with the sermon about forgiveness.) It was just really hilarious to look around the church and see on people's faces which of them actually recognized the song and were infinitely amused that it found its way under a church roof. XD ((And I actually really like Cee-Lo's song, despite the language. It's just so catchy! XDDD)) The song is altered on some radio stations as "Forget You" as well  |
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Post by Sarn on Jun 19, 2011 20:37:33 GMT -5
Please pray for Scar's grandmother to live long enough for him to say goodbye when he flies home tonight, and also for her to find peace and go gently. Please also pray for Scar and his family for comfort during this time, and especially for his father who has found it hard to control his emotions since having a stroke late last year.
Thank you. <3
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Post by Deleted on Jun 20, 2011 0:28:06 GMT -5
Update on Scar's grandmother. She passed away just half an hour ago. Thank you for your prayers.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 17, 2011 16:14:45 GMT -5
*pokes this thing* So, ahm, anyone still read this? ^^; I have a prayer request but considering the lack of posts since my last two I'm a bit dubious as to the use of posting it here?
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Post by Kozma on Jul 17, 2011 16:26:26 GMT -5
*pokes this thing* So, ahm, anyone still read this? ^^; I have a prayer request but considering the lack of posts since my last two I'm a bit dubious as to the use of posting it here? I haven't read anything on this thread in awhile given that it's been very inactive, but I did come back in when I saw that you made a post. It may be possible others may view and respond to whatever prayer request you have, though I can't guarantee it. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 17, 2011 16:47:16 GMT -5
*pokes this thing* So, ahm, anyone still read this? ^^; I have a prayer request but considering the lack of posts since my last two I'm a bit dubious as to the use of posting it here? I haven't read anything on this thread in awhile given that it's been very inactive, but I did come back in when I saw that you made a post. It may be possible others may view and respond to whatever prayer request you have, though I can't guarantee it. I figured that's what most people do, just come along if they happen to see a post. It's just ... this is supposed to be the Christian Support Club, and it seemed to me that the death of a close family member would have been the perfect time to lend support to Scar and I. Instead, it was a whole bunch of non-Christians who did the supporting, while the Christians (the only group of whom I asked help on his behalf) didn't seem there at all. I know it's been a while since this happened, and maybe I just happened to catch people at a bad time and my post was overlooked. It happens all the time everywhere. I guess I just feel like it shouldn't happen, you know? We're brothers and sisters even if we haven't met each other or hardly know each other, and we're meant to be there for one another when we can, and sometimes that means taking a few extra seconds to maybe check this thread specifically and see what's going on instead of just spotting it on the recently active threads list. ^^;;; Scar may not post much but he's still your brother and I suppose I'm just disappointed that I wasn't able to bolster his fledgling faith with the encouragement of other Christians. Goodness knows he doesn't get any in Malaysia. Anyway, I'll stop for now. Just please think on what I've said, because there may well come a time when you desperately need prayers for something big and I'm sure as heck you would want people here supporting and encouraging you. It works both ways, yes? Your time isn't wasted. As for my request, I'm struggling with pretty overwhelming depression right now and it's sometimes incredibly difficult to get up in the morning and go to lectures. I do NOT want to fail my courses because my brain was muddled up, so if I could get some prayers for strength to fight and willpower not to give up, that would be wonderful. It's nothing major, I'm fighting on my own, but it's better to fight with an army, y'know? xD Thanks in advance to anyone who prays. ^_^ |
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Post by Jo on Jul 17, 2011 17:34:49 GMT -5
I always view this thread, but I don't post since I'm not Christian. However, I think you probably got few responses because people often don't really know what to say in response to death.
Sarn, I don't really pray, but I'll keep you in my thoughts. I really hope that your depression gets better *hugehug* I'm always here if you want to talk <3
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Post by Deleted on Jul 17, 2011 18:50:20 GMT -5
Like Jo said, I'm not truly Christian (I think your guys' God is one of the many forms the force of creation takes). But I'm truly sorry about Scar's grandmother. *hugs for the both of you*  |
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Post by Shadaras on Jul 17, 2011 19:59:02 GMT -5
I always view this thread, but I don't post since I'm not Christian. However, I think you probably got few responses because people often don't really know what to say in response to death. Sarn, I don't really pray, but I'll keep you in my thoughts. I really hope that your depression gets better *hugehug* I'm always here if you want to talk <3 This. Completely and utterly. <3 |
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Post by Kozma on Jul 18, 2011 7:06:30 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that you didn't get the Christian support you were expecting when Scar's grandmother passed away. I kind of had the same issue back in March when my grandfather was dying and I asked for a prayer request for my family; no one commented on that post and I felt disappointed over it.
I am a Christian by the way and I will not let you struggle with your depression without any Christian support. I'll be keeping you in my prayers and I'll gladly offer any other support you would like. I also have a problem with depression and even though it doesn't seem to be as severe as yours, I am aware of what you are going through.
Be strong, Sarn. I may not have been much help in supporting you before but I will not make the same mistake twice.
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Post by ♥ Azzie on Jul 18, 2011 14:04:28 GMT -5
*hugs* I said some prayers for her, Sarn. I just wasn't sure what to say here.
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Post by Pacmanite on Jul 18, 2011 20:31:48 GMT -5
I'm sorry, Sarn. Sorry for Scar's grandmother and for not replying. And I'm sorry that my silence has led you to feel that you weren't heard, or cared for, or prayed for.
I guess I don't check this thread often enough, and when I see that there hasn't been a post in a while, I sometimes think that it's all been resolved and it might be awkward to bring it up again? Maybe I'm just being silly. I usually pray for all the people who need prayers on this thread even though I don't always find the right words to say in reply on this thread.
But thank you for bringing the issue to light, Sarn. From now on I'll be checking this thread more regularly and posting more support, because - and it sounds so obvious now - that's what Jesus wants all us brothers and sisters to do. How can I think that I could just post when I need prayers, and not when other Christians are in need of support??
Sarn, can you imagine me putting my hands on you? Because that's what I would do if you were right here.
Sarn, I pray that God will give you the strength to fight your depression. He knows that you've been suffering from it for a long time, but it is also His will that you will not be fighting alone. I pray that the Spirit of God will enter into your heart and give you the encouragement you need to keep studying, keep battling, keep living. Because we did not inherit death but Eternal Life, the glory of God's goodness. I pray that you will be able to taste that glory and that peace of God even in your darkest moments. In the name of the Lord Jesus, our sheild and strength, I pray. Amen.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2011 20:42:21 GMT -5
^_^ I should've realized this is one of those readers : posters ratios that happens in places like the diaries board. I hope I didn't make anyone feel guilty or anything, that really wasn't my intention, though I think I sort of came off that way a bit too much. In any case, it's lovely to see so many people rising to the challenge with gusto, and that's a beautiful thing, my friends. Be proud. <3
Thank you everyone who prayed, loved and thought of Scar at all, and thank you also to those who have and will pray, love and think of me. I'm the sort of person who puts a lot of stock in prayer, and so when they're prayed for me I treasure it greatly. <3 <3
*group hug*
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