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Post by Stal on Mar 8, 2004 11:29:52 GMT -5
Thanks! ;D Now... *is feeling mischevious* Tell me, was I being genuine or was I fishing for compliments? I knew that was coming. So that's why I edited my post to say that. I always have to assume someone online is being genuine. There are few that I can say aren't, but that's because I know them too well.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 8, 2004 17:05:48 GMT -5
Stal, how come you don't have girls just fainting at your door step? Oh right, they can't make it all the way the-*thud*
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Post by Stal on Mar 8, 2004 17:32:59 GMT -5
Stal, how come you don't have girls just fainting at your door step? Oh right, they can't make it all the way the-*thud* *chuckles* Because everyone in my neighborhood hates me, and I have few friends in the state of Missouri...therefore few who actually know where I live. Those few don't know me too well, and most of those few are guys.
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Post by Roxy on Mar 9, 2004 0:01:20 GMT -5
Right, you bring up a good point... It has to be done properly. Otherwise it looks fake and then you come off looking even worse than if you weren't being polite to begin with. But I'd be sure I was usually in a position where I could do things like that. So here's a question...opening car doors. I would (and will) open the car door for whomever I'm dating and such when we're getting into the car...but should I go around and open it when exiting the car? *muses* Then again, I guess it depends on how she acts. If she waits, then yeah. I believe you're right on, most of the time she'll get out by herself but if she sits there don't walk away..haha. I think you have the whole chivalry thing down, Stal. I'm sure you'll use it just fine
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Post by Princess Ember Mononoke on Mar 9, 2004 15:26:38 GMT -5
For girls: Okay, this comes from personal experience. If you tell a guy that you like him, and it takes him a while to respond... DON'T run away. Even if it feels awkward, just be patient and give him a chance to let it sink in. Otherwise, you'll be fretting the whole day about what he thinks of you.
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Post by Roxy on Mar 9, 2004 21:35:45 GMT -5
For girls: Okay, this comes from personal experience. If you tell a guy that you like him, and it takes him a while to respond... DON'T run away. Even if it feels awkward, just be patient and give him a chance to let it sink in. Otherwise, you'll be fretting the whole day about what he thinks of you. Good advice, I must say.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 9, 2004 21:42:18 GMT -5
Tip for both genders:
DON'T play a private game of truth or dare and wind up having to do a dare on someone the next day: it makes them feel like a HUGE loser. I got dared to ask a guy to dance at our Valentine's day dance and (even though he liked me a bit before that) he said no because he found out it was a dare and he said afterwards to a friend who asked why he said no, "Well, she didn't really want to dance with me, she was just dared, so what's the point?" And I felt like a HUGE loser afterward...
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Post by Stal on Mar 9, 2004 21:49:43 GMT -5
Extremely. There's nothing weirder for a guy than for a girl to come up, say that, and leave. It's like "Woah. Shockness. ...now what?" and our brains have to travel down a new road about as fast as they can (which in relationship cases is pretty slow). Not that I'd ever know what that's like, but I've heard other guys talk, and stuff...
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Post by Roxy on Mar 9, 2004 23:15:33 GMT -5
Extremely. There's nothing weirder for a guy than for a girl to come up, say that, and leave. It's like "Woah. Shockness. ...now what?" and our brains have to travel down a new road about as fast as they can (which in relationship cases is pretty slow). Not that I'd ever know what that's like, but I've heard other guys talk, and stuff... I think any girl would be a little weirded out by it, too. I'd actually be really weirded out. My advice to both genders: Just be yourself, if they don't like you for who you are, they're not worth it.
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Post by Crystal on Mar 10, 2004 6:04:26 GMT -5
I think any girl would be a little weirded out by it, too. I'd actually be really weirded out. Since I've never been told that anyone likes me before... if someone did that I'd kind of... edge away and try to avoid them, unless I like/have a crush/am their friend. I think the right word would be 'bolted'.
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Post by kuwoobie on Mar 11, 2004 20:46:19 GMT -5
For the girls : Don't be mean ;_; Just lunge and show them lots of love and they'll never turn you down.
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Post by Stal on Mar 11, 2004 21:19:01 GMT -5
Just lunge and show them lots of love and they'll never turn you down. *raises hand* Unless I'm misinterperting what you just said (which I don't think I could've), you're wrong. I'd turn her down, maybe. I guess it would depend on my feelings for the girl. But I wouldn't let physical actions decide, for me, who I'll go out with. So, yeah... That may sound cold and heartless, but I'm not going to be in a relationship for the physical side of things. I draw the line for myself at closed mouth kissing/minor open mouth kissing. I'm in a relationship for helping to find a future wife, not who's a good kisser and whatnot. So, uhm...did I just misinterpert or is that what you meant? Advice to both genders: Moderate phone calls to the one you like (and not in a relationship with). You might be tempted to call every day, but it only does more harm than good. I'd say once or twice a week is good.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 11, 2004 21:27:02 GMT -5
For the girls : Don't be mean ;_; Just lunge and show them lots of love and they'll never turn you down. Uhh, from personal experiences, yeah, they sorta leave you. And I lost 20 bucks worth of bouncy balls, cheetos, and Crunchy bars to him too! I could've gotten a bunch of magazines, soda, Milky Ways, and music with that moola!!! ;-;
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Post by kuwoobie on Mar 11, 2004 21:31:03 GMT -5
Uhh, from personal experiences, yeah, they sorta leave you. And I lost 20 bucks worth of bouncy balls, cheetos, and Crunchy bars to him too! I could've gotten a bunch of magazines, soda, Milky Ways, and music with that moola!!! ;-; Ok well I guess I was just reffering to myself then. I'm nothing like most guys. I hate most guys...grr....grr on them!
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Post by enigmaticviolinist on Mar 13, 2004 19:38:03 GMT -5
My piece of advice...
GIRLS: Don't judge a boy by his cover. If he does something that p's you off the first time you meet him, don't ditch him! (We're like that...)
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